Do you think the universe fights for souls to be together?
Some things are too strange and strong to be coincidences.
How is your weekend going? Hope good. Am having some kind of reflecting moments today, so I decided to share and give my candid opinion and answer to this question.
I saw this question on Quora and then this quote on instagram the same day.
First of all what’s the meaning of universe?
Universe is everything under consideration.
I’ve heard on several occasions when people say —
I think we are meant to be together, everything seems to be working in our favour”
Most people have been or are in situations where everything that happens around them and a person makes them feel it’s a sign they will end up together. This things also happen with normal friendship but let’s discuss this in the context of relationship and marriage.
You can say can it be mere coincidence that I dreamt about him and he showed up at my door or I thought about him and I got a call from him or I felt in my spirit to pray for him and I confirmed he was in trouble at that point or I got tired of waiting for him to make moves so I delete his number and immediately he calls.
This last instance happens most times with ladies. It can be true that you guys will end up together sweetie, but most times it really can be mere coincidence. I think guys feel that way too but it happens more with women or maybe because I’ve had this conversation with Ladies.
Am also guilty of this… I’ve been in that situation, it looked like everything around I and a particular dude was directing us to being together but until now nothing has happened, so I made a decision because it’s been six years… Imagine six whole years, I just thought about it.
I think it was love at first sight and that is so unlike me, I had never been a person of rash decision when it comes to romance, I have always been calculated, distant and unavailable not out of any sort of strategy, but out of fear. Fear kept me from a lot of things, but the most obvious was that it kept me from love and opening myself to another person.
The truth is this man I fell in love with or had a crush on might not be the man I will go home to every night in the future, but everything seemed to work in our favour. Funny enough almost every moment I prayed and asked God for between us happened that way. Don’t know if we will ever be together but those years I wished and waited I felt it was God and the universe also keeping us apart for a reason.
Most times these people show us little or no attention, they leave us to wallow in assumptions or leave us in confusion, they give us reasons to think we are heading somewhere but…. (I feel like speaking my language here).
Some people meet their spouses in the strangest and awkward circumstances more like everything around them worked tooth and nail to keep them together but remember that everyone’s destiny is not the same and what is yours is yours
The universe can fight to keep people together or apart.
Learn from these lines from a video my friend sent to me—-
I’m learning not to force things to happen
I’m learning to just let them be
To let them align with my life when the time is right
To let the universe bring them to me without having to run after them
Because if you have to run after something, it means it doesn’t want to be caught.
I’m trusting God that what’s meant for me will eventually find me no matter where I am
I’m learning to let those who don’t want me in their lives go.
And I might even hold the door open for them because I don’t want temporary visitors anymore.
Decided to be posting new contents on Wednesdays and Saturdays….
Until next week Wednesday stay safe.
Written with love from Zenith ❤❤❤